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Single
'n' happy!
There's
a tribe in the industry that refuses to bow to convention
and proposes to stand tall and resolutely single on a day
marked my mush and moonlight romance!
These
are the stars that shine in their own glory and say they don't
really need emotional props to pep up either their personal
or professional lives.
Peppy
Mauli Ganguly, last seen in Saakshi and now in Kkusum,
says she is happy to be a free bird. "I see my friends
who are married, have a husband and in-laws to account to
and can't even go for a movie. I live alone in Mumbai and
have no responsibilities as such. When my mother comes to
stay with me, I have to do nothing at home as everything is
taken care of," she points out.
Aashka
Goradia, better known as Kumud of Kkusum, too has no
cumbersome boyfriend to worry about. "The biggest advantage
of being single is you can flirt with anyone, anywhere and
anytime," she laughs.
"You
don't feel you are ditching anyone and you are not answerable
to anyone." On a naughty note, she adds, "You learn
new things from different people rather than learning the
same shit from the same man!"
Point
taken. Mauli agrees, ""I am cent percent focused
towards my career. I have more time to explore life."
Even the single guys in the industry seem to be in tandem
with this line of thought. Says Shabbir Ahluwalia, otherwise
known as the flirtatious Rishi in Kahiin To Hoga,
"The
biggest advantage is stress free focus on work. I am working
for a daily show in an industry, which is too fast moving,
so being single is advantageous. A relationship requires a
lot of time."
That's
practical thinking for you. Tina Parakh too is equally practical
when she points out, "I work in an industry where work
schedules are quite hectic and it would be very difficult
for a non-industry guy to understand this." She also
argues the other side of the debate when she says, Of course,
when you are a married woman, it's ok to talk to five men
but if you are single and talk to five men, people will talk
about you." That however hasn't deterred Tina from being
her own person, she says defiantly.
Another
flamboyantly 'single' person in the industry, Akashdeep Saigal
has no time for girlfriends as he is busy shooting another
soap for Balaji Telefilms. He uses the 'extra personal space'
he gets to spend time with his family. "I don't need
to worry about - "I forgot to call her up", he says
wickedly.
Sangeeta
Ghosh, veteran of many a soap, also points out that while
a husband can be a continuing presence, parents fade their
opinions into benignity after some time. "In television,
women have a say in everything. I have mostly worked with
female producers and I am doing only lead roles so perhaps
I have not faced any problems."
Pondering
her single status, she adds, "Single is not married but
available. Moreover even married people are available, aren't
they?!"
By PRASHANT GOLECHA
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