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Much
has been written about working celeb-moms and raising children, but what about
celeb- dads ? With the steady
augment of the number of working mothers, fathers are taking on responsibilities
of taking care of their children. It is not easy! We asked some of our celebrity
dads on how they juggle between their erratic schedules and handling their toddlers
at the same time. "I think women handle their careers and parenthood
extremely well and hats off to Mansi for that. I hardly get time to spend time
with my daughter Kiara, who is just two years and seven months old. But whenever
I get time I just read to her or sing songs," says Rohit Roy. Although
he went through the normal phase of initial awkwardness and doubts, to be involved
with his baby girl's care was his prior need. "Initially, I was unsure about
what to do and would become nervous carrying her.But now I am an expert,"
he smiles.
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best way to overcome nervousness is by doing things for them. I started by carrying
her around and talking to her. Reading or singing aloud can be a wonderful way
to be together. And it's only by spending time with her I began to understand
the difference between her cries for food, a new diaper or sleep. I think fatherhood
really changes a man," points out Rohit. Amar Upadhaya says, "I
totally agree that being a father makes you patient and more sensitive. I try
to adjust my schedules such that I come home by 9 pm and spend time with my kids.
In fact, my son Aryamaan (2) waits for my return and starts pouncing on me just
as I step home. And my daughter Chenab (4) sleeps only after I have kissed her
goodnight," he smiles affectionately. "We
try to have dinner together as often as possible. I share my day's plans and activities
and Sundays are exclusively for my kids. We go to Inorbit mall at the games zone
or to the park. My daughter loves sitting on the sea-saw and playing with clay
and we make moulds together, which is fun. At times, I take Aryamaan to the Club
for swimming," says Amar. Often
dads don't know how to connect with their children due to nervousness. The best
way is to create daily rituals that work for both you and your child. Take them
for a walk, share jokes, play games together. It is important to connect each
day to share and keep your relationship growing. "Children
are always attached to their mother even when their moms don't go that extra mile
to be with their kids. The paradox is that dads have to do bachee ki khatirdari
only to be with them," says the sexy father Parmeet Sethi. So what does daddy
dear do? Says Parmeet, "Weekends are for my kids. We go for tennis practice,
football or go for pizzas and pastas. Aaryamaan (9) and Aayushmaan (6) both love
swimming, so we go to the Club for practices or just for a drive." "When
I am shooting, I try and reach home early so that we can have dinner together.
I read them bed time stories or play hand boxing, which damm is exciting. Or in
between my shooting breaks, I just go to their school and we have lunch. I attend
their sports days, just to cheer them. I think its important to take out time
for your kids, just because you work doesn't mean you ignore them," Parmeet
philosophies. And
then there are dads who stay miles away from their kids yet make it a point to
call them and make up for all the lost time. Ronit
Roy, whose daughter Ona (13) stays in the States, meets him once in a year. "My
daughter is quite mature for her age. At times, I feel bad for not being with
her when she has her annual day at school or when she needs me to share her happiness
and sorrows. But I call her regularly and when we meet, I try fill in for lost
time," he reveals. So,
busy or not, these dad's are at their chidren's beck and call
come what may! |