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Violence,
subtle and physical, has permeated the soaps of the
small screen, according to a recent study.
In
a monitoring study that spanned 30 episodes of various
soaps on Star Plus, Sony and Zee in June 2002, the
Delhi based Centre for Advocacy and Research found
that there is a high presence of physical, verbal
and psychological violence on screen. Most of this
is directed at women. Marital discord, male female
conflicts, male aggression and family honour are the
reasons for the high quantity of violent acts on television,
notes the study.
During the seven day study, the CFAR viewers' panel
also looked at regional language channels like Alpha
Bengali, Alpha Gujarati, Asianet and Sun TV. In the
monitored sample, the panel noted 10 scenes depicting
domestic violence in which women were the victims
and men the aggressors. The nature/act of violence
was physical or verbal. However, the psychological
impact of the violence was to a major extent borne
by the female victims, the study avers.
Whether
marital discord, anger and frustration of the man
in his professional life, a misunderstanding or the
honour of the family, the women were always at the
receiving end, notes the study. The relationship between
the aggressor and the victim is seen as mostly marital
or through marriage, but in a few instances, even
a brother was an aggressor.
The
study also finds that women are often shown submitting
to maltreatment and lacking the conviction to defend
themselves. The ‘family court’, found the study, is
a common occurrence. The woman is ‘accused’, judged
and convicted by this ‘family court’ which consists
of the woman’s in-laws. She has no recourse to any
other agent, legal or otherwise.
Although
bigamy is illegal in India, it is often depicted -
with the onus on the wives. It is dramatised in a
sensational and voyeuristic manner, without any respect
for or mention of the law.
In
many instances, male and female characters are forced
into marriage against their wishes. This results in
domestic violence or extra-marital affairs. As upholders
of the family honour, women are always expected to
place the family ahead of their personal aspirations,
claims the study.
Most of the viewers CFAR spoke to have said that a
serial need not be violent in a bloody or in a destructive
way without reason. Conflicts should be depicted in
a ‘reasonable’ way and appropriate to the situation
and not just to heighten the suspense and hook viewers.
Violent situations are usually a way of creating excitement
and expectations, viewers said.
Citing
examples, the study mentions Kasauti Zindagi Kay
(Star Plus), in which Shivani, just married to
Anupam, is slapped by him when she discovers a fraud
he had committed. The new bride is shown howling when
her brother visits her. The brother takes up the matter
with her husband and her in-laws. But Shivani's in-laws
don't intervene. Shivani folds her hands and pleads
with her brother to leave.
The CFAR study raises the point that while the wife
is mistreated by her husband, she is made to apologise
instead of being consoled or the husband being chastised
for his behaviour. Such scenes show women as submissive
to any maltreatment and lacking in the ability to
stand up for their rights, the study says.
In
another episode of Kasauti Zindagi Kay, Kajol
is threatened and emotionally blackmailed by her boyfriend
as well as her family. The parents and her elder brother
are against her alliance with the boy. When the elder
brother catches her red-handed with her boy friend,
he pulls her away angrily and takes her to home. She
is brought to the 'family court' where the brother
screams at her and threatens her with dire consequences
unless she behaves properly.
Citing other similar cases, CFAR raises another issue
- The 'family court' is used in many serials like
a "court martial". The 'accused' is judged and convicted
by this 'family court' which consists of her in-laws,
without recourse to any other agent, legal or otherwise.
Should such family courts be held and given the authority
to judge an individual who has no one to fall back
upon?
In Sanjjhi (Zee TV), Amar Singh uses physical
and verbal means to threaten both his wives and their
families when the first one files a suit of bigamy
against him while the second testifies against him.
He taunts and threatens his first wife, Kanak, by
reminding her of her inability to bear a child. CFAR
in its study asks whether such violations of the law
be depicted in such a dramatic, sensational and voyeuristic
manner, without any respect or mention of the law,
which clearly prohibits bigamy?
In
Hubahu (Sony TV), Aditi's husband roughly pushes
her towards the door and asks her to leave the house
because he feels that she is not allowing him physical
intimacy. The study points out that though the serials
did not project a lot of physical violence against
women, there are many instances of extreme and repeated
mental pressure, threats, screaming and shouting and
anger directed towards women. Women were shown constantly
under a lot of stress and anxiety, the panel felt.
Tradition and societal pressures act as an aggressor
in their own way, points out the study.
Anamika in Kahaani Ghar Ghar Ki is shown to
undergo tremendous mental and societal pressure in
trying to decide between her role as a wife (which
is to protect her husband at any cost) or to side
with the truth (and thereby reveal his crime). At
no point does any family member counsel her. In Kkusum,
Kasauti Zindagi Kay, Tu Kahe Agar, the three leading
women are shown to be under constant stress and mental
pressure owing to either their husband's affair with
other women or due to some familial problem. In Bhabhi,
Tilak and Pushpa pretend she is his wife. In one
scene, he pushes her towards the wall and warns her
never to tease him. 
In Kasauti Zindagi Kay, Kamolika is under constant
physiological stress because she suspects that her
husband, Anurag, is still in love with the girl he
wanted to marry in the first place.
In all these instances and in other serials, the wife
is placed under tremendous mental duress and even
abuse because marriage is often founded on a misunderstanding
or for some reason that is unacceptable to the man.
Often her husband is in love with another woman and
marries her under pressure from his family. What is
supposed to be one of the happiest milestones in a
woman's life, becomes a source of unhappiness and
uncertainty and of future conflicts between the couple
from the very first day of their marriage and justifies
the husband's ill-treatment of the wife, the study
notes.
In Choti Maa..ek anokha bandhan (Zee Tv), Kasauti
Zindagi Kay (Star Plus), the boyfriends of the
female characters physically, verbally and psychologically
carry out violence against them. Koyna in Choti
Maa becomes the victim to physical abuse by her
boyfriend who takes her to a pimp.
In another example, an apparently progressive character
who takes up cudgels for his sister in law against
his own brother is also shown taking recourse in brute
force. In Kahaani Ghar Ghar Ki (Star Plus),
Om uses both verbal and psychological pressure along
with his tough body language to force Anamika to reveal
the truth about her husband raping a blind girl. She
is reduced to hysteria in her pregnant state, and
finally, breaks down. When she testifies in court,
her husband Devan starts screaming at her. She cries
and walks out of the courtroom all by herself. The
CFAR study raises the pertinent issue of whether a
family member be given the license to continuously
pressurise or "torture" a woman on the justification
that the ‘truth’ has to be established.
Impacts -
Several
female viewers interviewed by CFAR observed that many
of the so-called safe family serials, which hook the
viewers with very identifiable situations and characters,
have their share of problems. Not only is the depiction
of men and women lopsided or one-dimensional, it is
highly exaggerated, unrealistic and inconsistent,
the study claims. Besides, some female characters
are portrayed in an extremely unconvincing manner,
especially when portraying a scheming, unscrupulous
and dominating character. Men are portrayed in a highly
negative manner too and such negative behaviour is
often glorified.
In many of these serials, extramarital affairs, bigamous
relationships are shown as a matter of routine, and
in some cases extremely casually. This gives children
the impression that these are normal, acceptable or
even desirable situations and expected adult behaviour,
says the study. Mothers also found adverse impact
on children’s lifestyles and their quality of life,
and felt that children are getting increasingly prone
to aggression. They constantly demand attention, exhibit
severe mood swings and in some cases are prone to
addictive habits. Finally, they behave in a highly
precocious fashion, acting and behaving much older
than they actually are, adopting adult postures and
mannerisms. In most Indian homes, the mothers are
at the receiving end of such behaviour.
This presumes greater importance because research
studies show that most of the children are hooked
to adult programming. According to CFAR’s recent five-city
study on Media Habits of Children, it was found that
50 per cent of the most favourite serials mentioned
by the children in the age group of 6-12 years fell
in the category of adult programming. Delhi topped
the list of children viewing family drama with Shaktimaan
(Doordarshan) the only exception.
The study says that most soaps are exploiting reality
to justify domestic violence - not normally condemned.
Therefore, shown as 'normal' within a family. The
TV family is thus one in which violence is a day to
day occurrence. No effort is made to correct this
highly offensive and prejudicial behaviour. This justifies
violence in real life and desensitises us to it and
a future generation who will tend to believe that
such personal liberties and violations are permissible
in marriage and personal relationships, the study
notes.
Legal steps are seldom shown, the study notes. "Family
courts" are held instead, in which might is the norm.
Violations of individuals and their legal rights are
openly shown. They allow a whole host of individual
violations as if it is acceptable behaviour. People,
including children, are shown eavesdropping, violating
people’s privacy, inflicting physical and verbal violence,
taking recourse to hate-filled speeches etc, as if
it is their individual prerogative to abuse as long
as the person you are abusing is within the family,
the study observed.
Finally, says the study, it gives men the power to
resort to violent means to control their wives and
teaches wives to submit to the violence in the larger
interests of the family, which is at the core of these
serials.
The one week sample included -
Serial
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Number of episodes |
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| Kahaani
Ghar Ghar Ki |
5
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| Kasauti
Zindagi Kay |
4 |
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| Bhabhi |
3
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| Kkusum
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4
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| Saanjhi |
1
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|
Kitne Kool Hai Hum |
1
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| Choti
Maa |
4
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| Tu
Kahe Agar |
1
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| Kyunki
Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi |
4
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| Kuntee |
2
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| Hubahu |
1
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